"my philosophy in life is that if you really want something and you work really hard, you will eventually get it"
seriously? u think that's true. I use to never believe why things are impossible for some. But seriously, circumstances play a major part too.
Its like a starving african kid wanting to drive a BMW. u think if he really work hard enough its possible?
Circumstances my dear, not everyone has the finances or opportunity to get it their way.
Believe in self satisfaction & no FML cos how about those living in poverty?